January 27, 2013- Interesting Rant

Good evening all,

Hope all is well with whomever is reading this.

**DISCLAIMER**
This is indeed MY blog. If you have a different opinion, I respect that, but do not come at me offensively because age is nothing but a number and you will get dealt with accordingly. Thanks!

Now, as you know, I am 25. I have very overbearingly ole-skool parents. Do as I say not as I do, you never grow up to your parents, respect your elder even if they disrespect you (the one I hate with a burning passion), no shacking and all that bulls**t. So, I have a friend that works with one of my parents and my aunt. She being the grown ass woman that she is, she does not take none off of anyone. She will tell you whats on her mind and not give a damn later (that's why I love her!!).

My parent told me that my friend came up to her and said some things about my aunt. Now my aunt, she is one of those people who is too-much more than you would expect, she is super-duper extra in everything she does. Long story short, friend and aunt had words at work. Friend told parent about it and friend referred to aunt as a "thang" (that's what I was told). Surely she meant it, but parent didn't appreciate it.

 POINT: Why then would you come home and talk to me as if I called aunt something? Why then did you not say to her what you felt then? She is not a child and damn sure not your child, though you see her as one bc that's how "elders" think. She is indeed a grown-ass woman. Trust me, she can hold her own against ANYBODY!! I done seen it boo! Either way, I was not there, and to be quite honest, I could care less what she said bc aunt deserved what friend said to her. I respect my elders, I really do and so does she. But why do they think that it's ok to put their foot in their mouth and say something off the wall and it not get dealt with ADULT-STYLE? My Granny told me to respect my elders but she also said to give respect, you must give it. She also said to treat people the way you want to be treated. Her parents raised her differently than mines raised me and I do not blame her for defending herself against anybody who feels like they can just walk over her or talk to her any kind of way, elder or not. And the fact that she has NEVER disrespected anybody in my house in the 9000+ years we have been besties should tell you something. I knew it would come to this and I hate that parent tried to shove me in the middle of it, just bc she is my bestie. But whatever bc I love my friend and she ain't bout to change for NO-F**KING-BODY!! #POW and good day!

Good night all,

TaraBug